🌱 Personal Reflection Tool
Center — Returning to Yourself
(This is the companion tool that pairs with the reflection.)
Purpose
This reflection tool helps you gently reconnect with:
- who you are beyond the caregiving role
- what you need to feel balanced and whole
- how to hold both love and exhaustion at the same time
There are no right answers.
You may return to this reflection whenever you feel lost or disconnected from yourself.
✍️ Reflection Prompts
1. Right now, in this moment, am I breathing freely — or holding my breath?
(Pause. Take three slow breaths. Notice what you feel.)
2. Who am I beneath the caregiver role?
(What qualities, interests, or parts of myself still exist, even when I can't always see them?)
3. Which compass direction am I most drawn to right now?
(North/Purpose, East/Renewal, South/Rest, or West/Release — and what does that tell me about what I need?)
4. What is one kind thing I can say to myself today about the work I'm doing?
(As if speaking to a dear friend who is carrying what you carry.)
🌿 Closing Pause
Place one hand on your heart.
Take one slow breath in.
Exhale gently.
If it helps, return to the affirmation:
This is where you return to you