✋The Pause Button
Takes: 30 seconds
Use when: You're about to lose your temper or feel a meltdown coming
Emergency Stop Practice
- Name it: "I'm at my limit"
- Remove yourself: Step into another room, even the bathroom
- Ground yourself: Place both feet flat on the floor
- Place one hand on your heart: Feel it beating
- Say quietly: "I am here. I am breathing. This will pass."
This isn't weakness — it's wisdom. You're breaking the stress cycle before it breaks you.